If your partner is ABDL or interested in DD but being a dom or getting involved in it isn’t your thing you may want to find ways to stop your partner's interest in Diapers.

Unfortunately, this is very unlikely to be possible, and to protect your relationship we urge you to try to engage positively with DD. This doesn’t mean there can’t be compromises but a no diapers/dd approach is near guaranteed to end in disaster.

You should also consider that many people started in your shoes but came to love the dom/mummy/daddy side of DD and the positive impact it had on their lives.

The minimum we'd suggest for a successful relationship where DD is desired is keeping your partner in diapers for 3 days a week.

Read our guide for partner new to DD here, our guide to using DD for stress relief and an hour by hour plan of DD days