If you feel that DD is required in your relationship but currently your partner is vanilla when it comes to wearing diapers then it's going to involve some hard conversations and require a strong base relationship.

First you need to tell them you want to have a serious chat about the future of your relationship and you're going to ask them for some changes in the dynamic. Arrange a time on the same day where you'll have the head space to discuss this. We recommended asking for the chat before work and having the chat after work, giving them the day to ponder what you might be asking for.

When the time comes, sit them down and start by listing all the things you love about them and your relationship. Say what you're going to ask for is very important to you and will sound very strange at first but you want them to hear you out fully before commenting.

Now it's time to talk about your interest in being a mommy/daddy to them and adding a diaper discipline dynamic into your relationship. Use all the benefits highlighted on this website to help sell it, make sure to say thousands of couples do this and find it very beneficial and finally that nobody else will know.

Try make the commitment smaller if they're unsure by saying you just want to trial it for a few weeks and you can both review after. But if required, you can be more forceful and tell them this is happening if they want the relationship to continue.

More on this later but start with lighter DD and increase it gradually over time.

If your partner has asked for DD then you just need to say you've had time to think about it and you'll do it but under your own rules.

Agree a time when their DD will start and that they'll find our their rules only once they agree they really do want DD.

It's important that there is a noticeable switch when you begin DD vs their previous ABDL play times so we recommend you start on stricter DD rules.

If you feel that you need DD in your relationship but currently your partner is vanilla when it comes to being a mummy/daddy then it's going to involve some hard conversations and require a strong base relationship.

First you need to tell them you want to have a serious chat about the future of your relationship and you're going to ask them for some changes in the dynamic. Arrange a time on the same day where you'll have the head space to discuss this. We recommended asking for the chat before work and having the chat after work, giving them the day to ponder what you might be asking for.

When the time comes, sit them down and start by listing all the things you love about them and your relationship. Say what you're going to ask for is very important to you and will sound very strange at first but you want them to hear you out fully before commenting.

Now it's time to talk about your interest in being more babied and adding a diaper discipline dynamic into your relationship. Use all the benefits highlighted on this website to help sell it, make sure to say thousands of couples do this and find it very beneficial and finally that nobody else will know.

Try make the commitment smaller if they're unsure by saying you just want to trial it for a few weeks and you can both review after. You'll need to help them understand their role and this website can be a great resource for a new mommy/daddy.