Peter and I got into DD from sharing a bondage, chastity and domination kinks but we wanted a way to move away from occasional fun to more a lifestyle. Our entry was after I started putting Peter in a chastity cage for extended periods and the community of people doing this overlapped slightly with DD couples on Tumblr. I got speaking to one of gay couples who had recently started DD and he pointed me to this website and other materials. At this point Peter didn’t know anything.

The more I read about DD the more I wanted this for our relationship. It allowed me to assert being a dom, maintain chastity and take away control like bondage but in a way I’d never thought about before.

I pitched the idea to Peter by showing him the couples on Tumblr enjoying DD and gauged his interest. After getting over the initial shock of it, we both got turned on watching the videos and he agreed he would be up for trying it. Maybe it was easier for us as we’re both very open to trying new things and already involved in kinks.

I went ahead and planned how it would work. 24/7 was an exciting idea but felt too big a first step so instead I decided it would work by him wearing every weekend with him in his chastity cage 24/7 when not in diapers. When wearing diapers he would have to use them for everything. My idea here was this would provide the incentive to wear them and stick to it.

For me the interest was the diaper wearing and forced usage so I didn’t buy any more baby style items. Alongside the diapers, wipes, etc the only other thing I purchased was a few onesies.

Once ready we discussed how it would work and agreed to try it out for 6 weeks and see how we found it. We’ve done this before for new kinks including his 24/7 chastity so we were both fairly comfortable with the idea.

Diapering my boyfriend for the first time was memorable especially as I removed him from his cage I had to quickly tape him up before he got erect.

The first weekend went well and I made sure he had a good time at changes or using a vibrator. He did only wet the diaper and managed to hold off doing a #2 which wasn’t ideal but made those two days easier. I was loving the power having him diapers gave me and our new changing times together throughout the day.

By Monday he was back in chastity and out of the diapers. The next weekend I decided to step things up and added a suppository to his Saturday morning change. The results were explosive and watching him lose control after fighting it was a turn on for me. The clear up was a bit nasty but he got in the shower to clean off so I didn’t have to wipe him down. That weekend I also had him leave the house diapered for the first time when we went for food on Saturday evening, the onesie was a help for this and definitely made us both feel more comfortable.

This routine continued for the next few weeks with the only change now that he wouldn’t get to cum unless in a messy diaper. This was affective to make sure he used his diaper every day without me needing to use laxatives. I could tell he was getting more excited for the weekends as the weeks went by and I grew deeper in love with him and the DD elements of our life.

When the 6 week review period came along we both agreed we were enjoying it. He still wasn’t a fan of having to mess diapers but I countered that it couldn’t all be fun as otherwise it wouldn’t be domination and he relented.

Going forward we’d stick to these new rules but he could now ask for diapers during the week if he wanted out of chastity but he’s have to wear for a minimum of 24 hours each time.

It didn’t take long for him to ask, to my delight, and soon I found myself diapering him more often. Weekdays were harder as we both worked and I have to go into an office 2-3 times a week so on those days if he’s wearing he has to WhatsApp me a picture of his diaper to ask for a change which brings some colour to my work days!

I’ve now had Peter in DD for about 6 months and we’re still loving it. We’ve talked about 24/7 but haven’t got the time to commit to that yet but he’s still probably wearing 4 days a week now which is a good balance and affordable for us.

We’ve introduced DD to one of our kinker friend couples who also do 24/7 chastity and they seem interested but are just following some couples on Tumblr for now. Overall DD has been great for me, Peter and our relationship so I highly recommend for couples who want a dom/sub mix in their lives.