It’s likely when wearing your partner will be required to use their diapers for everything but how do you enforce this and prevent cheating if you’re not around?

If you’re only going to be away for a few hours locking plastic pants can be used, preventing the removal of their diaper until you return. It’s equally possible to modify a sleeper by adding a small chain and lock around the zip to prevent it from being removed.

If they will be required to change, locking clothing won't work but instead, you can look at adding a key lock to the restrooms in your house. Lock them before leaving and thus preventing any access to a toilet.

If locks aren’t an option add a colored food dye to the toilet tank. They won't be able to flush the toilet without the dye becoming missing.

Simpler measures can include writing over the diaper where the tapes meet the body of the diaper. This highlights if the tapes have been moved or refastened before you change them.

For longer periods away you can make them keep their used diapers in a refuge sack. Record the weight of them and it will become clear based on historic usage if they’ve cheated.

Messing is the area most likely to be cheated so if you’re away you can prevent the need to cheat by forcing them to mess. For example, if you’re leaving for work in the morning, insert a suppository after you wake meaning you’ll have a messy baby before you even leave.

These measures might not be required but you should always enforce a strong deterrent. We recommend that if you find they’ve been cheating by not wearing or using their diapers the punishment should be serious. We like switching to complete diaper dependence for a week where they’d have to wear and use diapers in all scenarios including work.

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