The majority of couples don’t do DD 24/7 with 3-4 days a week the most common frequency. Why? Because 24/7 is hard and requires a big commitment from both sides.

If you’re interested it taking it to this level you can try it out with a 24/7 DD week or vacation. We recommend most couples do this a few times a year anyway. If you find you enjoy making it a more permanent feature of your life you can take the steps to switching to 24/7.

Once a decision has been made we recommend you commit to it fully. Otherwise you risk quickly slipping back out of it.

So as a first step you should throw away all of their underwear, from now on they’ll only be in diapers or pull ups. This step is essential in removing the ability to not wear when it isn’t convenient. Pull ups can be worn in situations where they’re still not comfortable in proper diapers such as at work.

Also now they are a full time diaper wearer you should make some adjustments to your living spaces. A dedicated changing table with all the required supplies should be setup, this can be done discretely enough so it can be hidden if you have guests around.

It’s a good time to stock up on diapers, buy in bulk to show them that this is a long term change.

Also now treat your partner as if they need diapers 24/7, after showers/baths quickly rediaper them while remarking that you don’t want then to wet themselves.

Once 24/7 your partner shouldn’t be using a toilet at all unless at work or with friends. Even then they should be padded with at least a pull up. Once ready step things up to full 24/7 with the removal of pull ups and toilet usage is now a thing of the past.

With 24/7 wearing you should try be as involved as possible but obviously your lives will likely mean they need to change themselves often. This is fine but still try get them to ask for permission over a message, etc and set daily diaper limits to prevent excess changes (3 - 4 diapers a day should be enough).