Are you a new to having a partner in diapers and don’t have natural mommy / daddy instincts? Struggle to know what you should / shouldn’t say? Don’t know how to try get more involved? Or feel awkward about the whole thing.

This guide provides a range of very simple things you can say or do to your partner which will help DD and they’ll likely enjoy.

Feel free to download and use as a reference to insert into you daily life. Try doing 3 of these per day and see your relationship grow even stronger!

When your partner isn’t wearing a diaper

• “I’m not sure I like you wearing your big boy/girl pants”
• “Are you trying to prove you don’t need diapers”
• “I think it’s time to get you back in a diaper”
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• Take them by the hand and change them into a diaper
• Get them to try prove their a big boy/girl by making them drink a lot but don’t let them use the toilet for 3 hours, wait until they wet themselves

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When your partner is in a dry diaper

• “You still dry baby? I bet that won’t last long”
• “You look really cute in that diaper”
• “Look at your padded bum”
• “You’re such a baby”
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• Give them a large drink (ideally in a baby bottle)

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When your partner is in a wet diaper

• “Aww, it looks like my baby is wet”
• “I’m glad I keep you in diapers, you’d too little to wear underpants”
• “That diaper’s looking a bit thicker than before”
• “Did you wet your diaper baby?”
• “We might need to get you thicker diapers with how much you pee”
• “You’re a bit wet but you’re not getting a fresh diaper until this one is completely full”
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• Push your hand up against the front of their diaper and squish it into them.
• Carry out a diaper check, get them to drop their pants / lift their skirt

When your partner is in a messy diaper

• “Is that my little stinker I can smell?”
• “I’m glad I keep you in diapers, you’re far too much of a baby to use the toilet”
• “Did you mess your diaper baby?”
• “Did you get it all out? Maybe I’ll wait an hour before changing you to be sure”
• “Oh my, someone really is a diapered baby”
• “Don’t worry, this is why I keep you in diapers 24/7”
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• Check their diaper by firmly pressing your hand against the back of it
• Make them sit down and watch tv with you
• Smack them on the bottom 10 times for being a bad boy/girl

During a diaper check

• “Drop your pants for me baby”
• “Lets see how wet you are”
• “I’m glad to you’re using your diapers like a good boy/girl”
• “These diapers aren’t full yet”
• “I think it’s time I changed you”
• “Let get by baby into a fresh diaper”
• “You’re going to have to change yourself this time, you messy boy/girl”
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• Visually check their diaper
• Use your hand to press the front of the diaper and lift it from below to feel the weight 
• Pull back the back of their diaper looking for poo even if you know they’re just wet

During a diaper change

• “You really needed a change, you were about to leak”
• “Lay there while I pick out your next diaper”
• “Lay still for me baby”
• “Let’s get you wiped clean”
• “Lift your legs for me”
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• Spend extra time wiping them all over
• Start getting them excited but stop before they cum and tape up their diaper
• Insert a suppository into their bum before taping up their diaper

When out in public

• “Hold my hand baby”
• “I’m glad you’re in diapers or you might have wet yourself “
• “You don’t need in there” (when passing a restroom)
• “Will you need a change when we get home?”
• “I hope nobody notices your thick diapers”
• “Let’s get you back home, I think somebody needs to be changed”

• Discreetly squeeze the back or front of their diaper
• Lift up their t-shirt so you can see the waistband and say “just checking you’re diapered like a good boy/girl”
• Give them a suppository before heading out
• Use an accessible restroom to change their diaper
• Go to a shop and buy diapers or diaper supplies

During sex

• “You’re such a baby”
• “I putting you straight back into diapers after this”
• “I don’t think I’m ever going to let you use the toilet again”
• “This is the last sex you’re getting for a week, it’s chastity and diapers for you after this”
• Any of the threats in the anytime section below

When in bed / going to sleep

• “Hopefully that thick diaper will keep our sheets dry”
• “You look like such a baby lying there in your diaper”
• “I’m not sure you could stay dry at night now you're in diapers all the time”
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• Place a pacifier in their mouth 
• Make them drink a full bottle of milk or water
• Or hold the bottle for them until they’ve completely finished it
• Cuddle up against their diaper
• Stroke their diaper to get them excited
• Make them take a strong overnight laxative and tell them you expect them to be messy by the time you wake up

When in bed / in the morning

• "Someone really wet their diaper last night"
• "I'm glad I put you in such thick diapers, you're soaked"
• "Is that my little stinker I can smell"
• "Your pee smells a bit this morning, I think I'm going to have to make you drink more before bedtime."
• "You're such a good baby for using your diaper as you're meant to in the night"
• "God you're wet again, you know what that means? You'll be in diapers all of today, you're not ready for big boy/girl underwear"
• "I want you to mess that diaper before you get up baby. I don't have time for messy diapers later."

• As before sleep use pacifiers and bottles
• Cuddle up or interactive with their warm wet diaper
• Insert a suppository to make them fill their diaper before getting up

Anytime 

• “I think I might throw away all your underpants, you’ll be in diapers all the time now”
• “Remember you have to use your diaper for everything baby”
• “I’ve decided you now have to use your diapers for everything”
• “I’m going to start using laxatives if you’re not messy at least once a day”
• “I think you’re better behaved in diapers, so I think we’ll make this permanent”
• “It’s weird to think that you’ll never use a toilet again”
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• Throw away or hide their underpants and replace with diapers before showing them their new underwear draw
• Switch them to a higher frequency of wearing such as 24/7 randomly
• Buy them a new babyish item of clothing, show them and get them to do a “fashion show” wearing it for you
• Try out chastity on them by buying a chastity device and adding it at the next diaper change
• Give them a strong laxative or suppository
• Try out adding an extra element of babying:

• Feed them a meal
• Make them drink exclusively from a baby bottle
• Ban adult clothes in the house
• Speak to them like a 1-2 year old for a day

If they misbehave

• “Remember bad boys/girls get punished”
• “If you do that again you’ll be in 24/7 diapers for the next week”
• “Ok, somebody’s just lost their toilet privileges”
• “God you really are a baby, I’m going to have to keep treating you like one”
• “As punishment for that you’ll be wearing your next messy diaper for 2 hours”
• “I think you need smacked to remind you who’s in charge”
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• Carry out a punishment, see here for options

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